It is the conflict-avoiding queen here! And people pleaser, so it is much easier to give out advice and suggested ways of handling incidents than in my own life.
I don't think that we all hover over our Hs with advice/criticism, but I think we do a bit (maybe in our body language) and they are very sensitive to it. I read today in a marriage book that one zinger (dig in Ellie talk) can negate 20 positive statements. I guess that is how powerfully hurtful they can be.
I'm glad everyone is doing well despite the difficult situation. I think about you often.
