Take a look at this article and I think you'll see some of your current situation in there.
It's difficult to resist the temptation to accept what appears to be the fulfillment of your hopes and dreams - a spouse who expresses the desire to come home.
It seems to me you've had incredibly solid counsel throughout your time here, so you KNOW that this was not going to be as simple as your wife just wanting to have her family back.
Even if she was completely sound of heart and mind, the reconstruction of a relationship after all that has happened is hard work and there are no guarantees.
Your wife is NOT healthy of heart and mind. If she truly has been diagnosed as she says, that diagnosis brings with it the imperative that she receive help and treatment to regain her health BEFORE you tackle the intricisies of rebuilding a relationship of any kind.
Don't see this as a setback.
Think of it as a reminder and a reality check.
You said yourself as this was unfolding that there were no guarantees. You KNEW what many have been saying to you. It's just incredibly tough to not be swayed by positives.
Do this the right way.
Because, God knows, you don't want to have to do it again on down the road.
Blessings,k
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
