I feel like I broke everything yesterday. I feel like all the hard work I achieved, both to protect me and give space to my wife, is back at the beginning.

I feel that yesterdays contact and misunderstanding just annoyed my wife and pushed her further away from me.

And I'm a wreck again, I'm sad, anxious and depressed again.

Does any of you have any words that might give some positive light into what happened yesterday?


Me: 36
Wife: 33
Together: 09/2007
Married: 03/2010
I love you but...: 06/2011
Separated: 06/2011
Rebuilding: 11/2011