I came across a post of yours from about April 03 on a thread about baby steps, over in Newcomers, I think. In it you said you didn't know whether the baby steps you were seeing were genuine ones which would lead your H back to the M, or just things to allow him to be friends and make it easier on himself, or words to that effect.
So I hunted down your most recent thread, to find out which in fact it was, and am SO PLEASED to see that they were in fact baby steps to reconciliation!
Gives me hope, as I have had the same fears. My H has alway said he wants us to be friends - even just after bombshell, and now that we are more friendly, nine months down the line, he seems very pleased.
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
