First off I was dressed up for an interview. Believe me with my good clothes and contacts, I got many girls heads turned in the office. I aced that interview, not because of my skill set or resume. Everyone was pretty evenly matched there, I nailed it because I used my charm to win over the 3 female interviewers. God... I needed that pick me up. When I came home, I didn't strut, my ego boost from a day of female attention said it all. I am the alpha male. If she can't see it and doesent plan on working on our R then her loss. Im going to turn the tables on her now and she can peruse me, she just doesn't know it yet. Then when she is ready to work, we stand a chance. I'll be hitting the gym and sticking to my diet everyday. She won't know what hit her.
Great attitude Johnnie. Your not Alpha yet though. You have to control your emotions and LEAD your Wife by standing up for what you know is right and have the conviction to follow through regardless of the end result. A MAN, especially Alpha, KNOWS and asks for what he wants; if he doesn't get it, he walks away, lets go, and has no regret because he is true to himself.
I love your attitude here and this is how you need to walk the rest of your life. Whether it's with your W or someone else. Your kids benefit from this attitude as well.
You are getting this Johnnie, slowly, but I'm seeing glimpses. You are getting a wealth of info from some really experienced posters.
