You can't mentally hold her to something she said (Don't be a part of her life) either in an angry moment or
at a time when she wanted to be sure she was setting her own boundaries with you.
Let me ask you this...
if you two did somehow reconcile, how would marriage to YOU today
be different than before?
Specifically, how have YOU changed?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016