I was on these forums about 4 years ago because my H left and after 4 months DBing he came home and we have since had another child. I have just discovered a letter on our PC to a W he used to work with and from the wording they have been having a PA for the last 3 years and he is in love with her but doesn't want to leave me because of the kids (his words in the letter). I've shown him what I've found and he stared straight at me and said it isn't true and he hasn't slept with her!?!! What!?!?!? Our children are 6 and 3, I don't work and now what do I do??? I could really do with someone to talk to please