"So now I have to identify what works to have my wife persue me..."
Wrong. You do what you do for YOU. Not to have her pursue you. If you're only doing things based on what you THINK she wants, the changes won't be real AND they won't be for life.
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Of course he wants his wife pursing him. She is pursuing another man right now. It's obvious what she wants. There is no "thinking" about that.
