Are you sure he has stopped all contact with the OW? if he did, then you have to ask yourself why? we cant read his mind, but maybe he sees some of what he loved about you in the beginning.
Your doing well. Keep strong and moving forward. Never give up hope, baby steps!
Thanks. I basically told him he had to stop contact for the sake of our son. He was angry, but agreed. I'm in contact with the OW husband, so we can help each other make sure there is no contact.
Jody did say it sounded hopeful - he still sleeps in the bed (although he never touches me) and i guess she thought that was noteworthy.
I just can't get over how fast he wants to divorce.
H: 39, Me: 37 SD: 18, S: 7 M: 9, T: 10 "I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11 Discovered online affair - 7/11