a girl, im sorry you had to find out about the OW.
You need to listen to the DB coach, there are some positives, he is still affectionate, he still interacts with you. The divorce talk is just that, divorce. In his mind at the moment, he is finished with the marriage.
Keep doing the DB strategy for you, keep moving forward and showing your husband what it is he loved about you enough to marry you in the first place.
Are you sure he has stopped all contact with the OW? if he did, then you have to ask yourself why? we cant read his mind, but maybe he sees some of what he loved about you in the beginning.
Your doing well. Keep strong and moving forward. Never give up hope, baby steps!
