so it has been crazy here, why is it that every soccer field you go to has no trees and you get to sit in the dam heat and sun for 2+ hours a day?

the big surprise is that the wife has been at the house every day this week and gone to every game. She brought steak home today for tomorrow, and she actually remembered my birthday this year.

She asked me to pick her up early in the afternoon so she can get a jump on supper before soccer. So not only did she remember, she brought the ingredients for my bday dinner and she wants to be at the house early to prepare it.

Im in shock still. While i drove her to OM house tonight, i mentioned i really hate driving there. Her reply was in 2 days, i will never have to come to OM house ever again.

The lonely drive home was tough. I am having mixed feelings about this weekend. What if i cant do this, what if its just to much to repair and get over? I cant put my kids through losing their mom again.

It's quite obvious what her main reason for coming home is. It broke her heart that she has lost that connection with her children.

Can people really make a marriage work when the main reason is their children?


M-34, W-33
SS14, SS13, S8, D6