what HE said^^^^--read and read it over again!! the label of MLC versus WAS makes NO difference in YOUR approach.
Hate to say it but this is NOT news to you.
Your focus is somehow staying all about how to label HER situation
instead of creating YOUR own life and future and being responsible for just that
How to make this clearer?? Um, whatever is going on with HER
makes NO difference in what you must do. Changes nothing. You think it may does I guess....but why? There's NO empirical evidence that I know of that says
MLC is somehow more hopeful.
Some say it is, but I don't know why.
Many MLCers permanently change and don't revert to their oldselves. They've changed...OR they do revert but do not return...
We don't know what "always works" to get them back. We only "know" some things that seem to make them stay away...which is focussing on THEM
and we know that YOU GAL and doing real 180s, is good for YOU and that makes it
more likely you'll be attractive to her but ironically it's NOT THE POINT OF IT
Your happiness is under your exclusive control. The SECOND you believe that
and take charge of your life,
is when things will get better for you.
It's not a linear improvement fixing all things, but it's real. And it's the ONLY way for your life to improve.
You have children. Model happiness for them, so they learn they are in charge of their lives/future too.
OR keep doing what doesn't work....hows THAT feel to you? Tad, you deserve to be happy but
it's up to YOU.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
