Hi Alb,

Great to hear from you again. I am glad that your situation is improving, it is very inspiring. You are adapting to having him back home as well, I remember that you were anxious about his coming back to you and worried how he was not ready yet. It is always harder to have the MLC'er home (mine has never left). No matter what, we always tend to watch them more closely, and the tendency to be pulled into the coaster with their up and downs is so much higher. That is when detachment, the mental type, is really needed. And part of it is keeping those painful memories and thoughts from invading your mind, keeping away the resentment.

Eventually, we learn!

Take care and hang in there! I have moved my thread to piecing, not because I am, but because I am seeing relevant advice and examples from people who are working on their restoring their M's, especially on the part of the LBS.


Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18
Bomb: 6/26/10
EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ???
11/5/11 Retrouvaille
Finally piecing....
Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go