I think being in limbo is the worst. My limbo lasted about a year and a half. I was always afraid that I was doing the wrong thing. I wish I had found this site prior to his filing but it is what it is.
Everything happens for a reason. We are only allowed to see part of the picture at a time. Life does continue to get better.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory