I agree with you completely on this. I struggled with this decision and at the end of the day I chose poorly.
It was not an attempt to appease my X it was just a poor decision on my part.
I thought it would be good for D to see her but D is 11 and will act out of emotions and I am the parent so I need to make decisions that protect her even if she does not see them.
This time I've backed my way into a corner but I will NOT happen again.
