I understand what you mean about wondering why husband chose me.
This is a challenge for me..but the stuff you listed is what has worked for me in the past.
As for the forgiveness part...I'm still doing it everyday. It's a concious effort. I did take Calystra's advice and tell him that I forgave him EVERYTHING. And after I made that statement, If either one of us brought up some old pain from the past, I'd say, "That's in the past, let's focus on the present."
hmm....I think it's time I get back to doing that again!
