"So now I have to identify what works to have my wife persue me..."
Wrong. You do what you do for YOU. Not to have her pursue you. If you're only doing things based on what you THINK she wants, the changes won't be real AND they won't be for life.
Never change your life FOR someone else. If those changes are things you recognize are good changes for you, then great. But that's when they're for you.
If you think you look good, then great! Show off your swagger. If your W notices that, consider that a plus, but not the primary benefit.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
