Thanks Ken. My attorney has things covered very well. In fact, I have been keeping them at bay for the most part because they are ready to "make her pay" as they say.
Obviously, I'm DBing even through mediation/pre-trial. The kids visitation is fine for now as w won't hold them from seeing me. However, I did request 50/50 and I know she doesn't want that. The barrier is...i need more income to provide and buy a house since I've been living with relatives since separation.
Previously, I had/have a consulting business which was agreed supplemental income the past couple years until all kids were school age. Then, ramp up. Now, this is one of the many things w uses against me even though she sudggested this.