Just one suggestion: why don't you go back to my old threads and check the pattern of suspicion that eventually lead to H leaving again.
T2's old threads also show her problems during the first attempt at reconciliation. Her H also eventually moved out and stayed away for quite some time.
I would hate to see you repeat my mistakes...
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"
