I have done some thinking about all this. Perhaps Alone is really on to something, suggesting this should be considered some closure that brings peace. I feel soooo much better about the situation knowing he's said these things to me. Maybe all I've craved is some closure and some recognition. I have not responded yet. I think I will today. Considering thanking him for somethings he brought to my life- maybe it would make him feel better too. I still miss him. But I feel a bit better knowing he appreciated me.
Here i go to write him a brief fun message. See what happens... I have nothing to lose.