legally, ask your lawyer what you need to do. protect yourself.
speaking from experience, being overly generous will only buy you regret. instead be fair, but stand strong for yourself. only agree to something when you really agree with it.
see your kids as often as possible. the visitation schedule you create now can act as the basis for the future.
get as much of your kids as possible. if more than 50/50 then great.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".
