Tele: You have given me wise words about hanging in there, not giving up hope, not to get caught up in the negativity. Same goes for you. You do not know your W is not the woman you married - you only know she is not that woman NOW. The OM is a dead end for her, to be sure, and she needs time IMO, to figure that out. Don't believe everything you hear, remember that.
My doctor, informed of my sitch, said "If you love her, then keep on loving her". Those were wise words for me at this point.
Hang in there.
H 51, W 46 no kids T 22 years M 17 years ILBNILWY 2/10 1st D talk 6/10 partial recovery W files D 5/11 long distance separation 8/11 moving forward on D 10/11 legal separation complete 1/2012