I am proud to say that I have not done any sort of snooping on my H for a week now and I am so happy that I have stuck with it. Many people on here have said that once they stopped snooping they felt better, and I didn't think that could be possible but they were right. I do feel better. I don't know...it might be ignorance is bliss perhaps? I prefer to think of it as not wasting my time on things I can't control.
for me, the snooping was an addiction, i obsessed about it, it ate at me until i looked, and i had to go down the list of all the places i could snoop. and then i'd feel horrible about what i found. then i'd feel guilty about looking, knowing i shouldnt be doing it. then it repeated. same process over and over, each step gave me another type of negative feeling.
now is your time to create healthy habits.
keep up the good work.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".
