Letting go is hard to do!

[Queen_of_Swords]

I had really hoped for some input from anyone. This is what I have decided I should send back to my wife.

Heres some input FWIW,

W, I don't feel It is my opinion that it is NOT in our kids best interest to make them choose who they should be living with, between either their mother or father. As parents yes We adults need to get along and give total support for what is best for both our girls daughters. I don't think It is not a good idea to put them on the spot and try and force them to make choices that would be difficult for anyone, even an adult.

I also know that We both love our children with all of our hearts. I am having a difficult time understanding why you would want to make the girls our daughters be forced to choose between us. a parent. I couldn't imagine trying to pick between my Dad and Mom. if they had gone through something like this.

I informed my lawyer that I refuse to hurt the girls and I refuse to put our daughters them in a spot that makes forces them choose one parent over the other. My lawyer told informed me the best way to settle this is to go through a child custody evaluation and let the court decide. Yes, it's a long and expensive process and I am going choosing to place my kids well-being above money or anything that could be damaging to them throughout their life and I choose this process.

I know each of us have a little We have different perspectives as to what is best for our children.for the girls. and as You said Friday in mediation you are unwilling to compromise when it comes to them. girls.
I am willing to try and come together work on a mutually agreeable plan that is in the best interest of our children. and I am going to be firm on what I feel is best for them this.


I do not know if you should send this or not. Others may have different opinions.

I have edited your message to be more declarative. Hope that helps.