And the beat goes on...

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Thanks, everyone. You all have provided "pearls of wisdom". I contacted a local credit union this morning and will be transferring all of my accounts to there.

LMH, your comment about wanting to let go and hold on at the same time is spot on. I bounce back & forth several times a day. I do feel that I am a much better man, friend, father and -potential - husband today than I ever was. Too bad it comes with a steep price.

JB, thanks as always for your encouragement. Fortunately we do not have the children issue to deal with, so relocating somewhere far away (and warm) would not cause a problem in that regard.

SMcQ,I'm reaching the "set them free" point faster than I thought I would, especially with the latest bit of information. It is difficult and painful to look at my W as the person she has become, and not as the W I married. But that is the reality of today; she is not the same person I married.