Thanks for all your well wishes.
I know this is going to be a long haul, likely with a D in my future given my STBX apathy where he is concerned.
Regardless, I know now I have to get my act together and do what I must for me emotionally, financially, and legally.
It will take a few months to get my ducks in row.
Truth is before I even open a door to a new R (be that with STBX or someone else) I need to close the door on this one.

Paradox of the day: The better you treat someone the more it seems they treat you badly.


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Me-51, WAS-52
Kids 2
M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013
Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice.
Love is a action and choice you make, every day.