Boy that was timely, just had an hour chat with close friend who knows our sitch, she was a WAW. She echoed everything Michelle said about WAWs. Then I sent her the WAW article on the front page and she was floored. She left her husband for the same reasons as my wife is now, and she went with the affair partner and now wishes she stayed with her husband, instead of the affair partner. in her words I realize now theat he(lbs) was truly in love with me.
Hopefully you understand the importance of this coversation. A WAW told you one of the most successful tactics for making them want to be with you.