I don't know why. Maybe my spidey sense is tingling.
Anywho...nothing new to report. Almost all interactions with W are positive. She notes it...doesn't outwardly changes things.
Last night my W had to go into finish a report on a patient that was needed today. That mean I had 100% kid duty. I don't mind, I do this at least once a week.
My W must have thanked me about 10 times for it. I basically said you are welcome, but you had the tougher go.
She sends me a text this morning..."Thx again for yesterday- I know solo parenting gets old fast."
I didn't comment on that. I mean a separation and/or divorce means a lot of solo parenting.
My gut tells me she is really, really conflicted. She likes me as a friend, partner, etc. But there are some things she needs to get past.
Before anyone says anything about mind reading...I'm pretty darn good at it with W. I was looking at some of my old posts where I said I think W is feeling this or that. And I was 100% dead on.
My other question is with regard to the move out. My W has wanted to be involved in the apt search. I've done a couple things on my own, but W knew about them.
I'm wondering if I should keep her abreast of every viewing or info. On one hand, I don't want to bring it up (and not because I think her mind will change, I know it's a tough topic for her) But I do want to show her that I'm taking her request seriously and respecting her wishes on this.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
