I am sorry to hear this. Hang in there. I know, easier said than done.

Has your husband actually spent any time with the OW yet? Or has all of the interaction been online? It seems weird for your H to throw away a family for a relationship that may not really be real. I think reality will bite him someday and he will regret it.

The main thing to keep in mind is to focus on yourself and your son.


Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012