My XW has been starting to spend time with me in the kids. She gave me the bomb 3.5 years ago. So, as you can imagine the more she is around the more I want to be with her. Naturally I started to push a bit (yes, I know 2x4) and she gave me the ILYBANILWY speech. Man, it hurt only slightly less the second time hearing it.
I think I confused her coming around as a positive sign. It's a confusing situation. I believe if our Xs have interest in us that they will let you know in clear terms.
So, I have finally tried to drop the rope and initiate no more contact with her. It's hard as we have 2 kids. But in the end I will be (and you too) much better off not seeing her or talking to her.
Me/W: 46/36 D7.6/S6 T/M: 7.5/6.5 Bomb 12/05/07 D final: 03/03/09
