Somewhere between filing and pre-trial

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D,
I dont have any suggestions about the D. You mentioned that your W moved to a new community, and house etc.
How often do you normally get to see the kids?
How are you when you see each other?

I know the kids being away seems like you are left adrift with no wind for your sail. However, remember that this is good for you to focus on yourself. Do you have any plans that you can make or things to do to keep yourself busy? Even if it is going for a walk or going to a late movie etc. Find something that makes you feel good about yourself and do it as much as you can.
To continue dim or not? Im not an expert on anything for sure except what not to do I guess.. Are you seeing any results from being dim? Are you consistent with being dim?

I say this because I was doing well and then backslid. I was not getting looked in the eye again after that. Now Im more consisten with my behavior and im getting positive results. To the effect that we can now have a conversation while he sits on the couch and he looks at me. Now of course this is small and means nothing has changed, but it does mean something to the kids i think.
Good luck on your path! Remember that even though you are on a rocky, thorny and slippery road you will be better in the end no matter the outcome.