So basically, I'm going to get the boxes in the morning and then have them conspicuously in the house. If/when my wife asks, wht. I will respond that "I am waiting on her response regarding her A, and that I am panning in advance for if her answer is not for our marriage. I will not live in an open marriage.". Then I will leave the house. She will be packing for her trip to somethingfest and will have the weekend to mull it over.

Does that sound ok?

Me 45 W 34 W.A.W.
3K. D11 S9 D6
M 12 y T 13 y
Bomb drop 02/22/2011
2nd written bomb (Letter bomb) 05/31/2011
Affair (A bomb) revealed 07/03/2011