Going N/C wish me perseverance/strength

[~¤DG¤~]

Maybe that would be best, to not say anything.

My H & I don't have kids together so I don't have to worry about that, but I do have a S10 who misses my H something fierce and cries on a regular basis because he never calls or visits or answers his calls. That rips my heart right out of me.

You can do this SC, and we'll be here for you.