I wondered the same thing too?

And when he said "dont rush into any rash decisions"??? Very strange since I told him I was still pondering the new custody arrangements.

Not sure why he thinks a mediator is a big step. To me it sounds logical.

I have arranged to see a lawyer tomorrow to find out my rights.

I was defensive in my responses. But when it comes to S3 I think any mother would be the same. To want to uproot a child is so uncessary and selfish. It is never in the best interest of a child to take then away from a family they have been with for most of their lives only to be put into day care so that their dad can have the satisfaction of having them 50% of the time.


W - 31
H - 33
Married - 7 years
Together - 10 yrs
Kids - S 3yrs old
Separated - 27/03/11
OW - 10/04/11