J1,
Every step hurts no matter how you look at it. The pain does get better im only 2 months in and I am not crying every day and my backsliding has become easier to stop. You will get to where you need to be so keep trying! If you have a bad moment or even a bad day remember you are only human. Also only worry about today I find that if I think of the future too much I make myself sick.

I also have lost a bunch of weight so much that NONE of my clothes fit. Not even my skinny clothes..
At first I couldnt eat because of the stress etc but I worked out to combat the stress. Now I am eating and sleeping but working out like 6 days a week and it helps me so much. So I guess my work outs are my medication in a sense..:)

I went to the local women's resale and found tons of clothes that were great and cheap. There are probably some near you that have men's clothes so look them up and go check them out.
Also she does notic your weight loss! My H did too so much that he commented to a mutual friend that I was losing weight to win him back. WRONG Im doing it for ME.. so your W notices but wouldnt dare tell you.. So when you look awesome do walk around in front of her if you can. Show her how happy you are in your new skin and just to be you!!!!


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H:32
W: 35
M- 11
Tog- 13
D-5
S-9
Sep. June 5th
Bomb 6/27/11
OW Discovered on July 18th and admitted....
Divorced 11/22/2011
Ex Engaged to OW Jan. 2012