I'm not sure why w is being so thoughtful or kind.... maybe now that she has the D conversation off her chest, she can be nice. Maybe seeing how loving I was to her on Saturday prompted her to be more loving to me.
Please focus on you, on your GAL, on your 180s, on your real changes. Appreciate that she was expressing herself in a kind and thoughtful manner.
Please do not make my mistakes and attach meaning to a few kind words or actions at this juncture. She can afford to be kind, she thinks she is getting what she wants and you’re taking care of her pets. Appreciate that you had a pleasant conversation. Do what works to have another without sacrificing your integrity/boundaries.
I guess I am trying to reinforce this
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I want to continue working on me, but want to set up some good boundaries so I don't put myself in hurtful situations. Like assume she cares.
IDK if it is, but the last bit about assuming her level of caring seems a little self defeating. You are stronger than that or you would not have made it this far.
What are your boundaries?
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
