Hello everyone.. I am very new here...my wife left me June 5th.....while I was out of town....upon my return to my home.....half the stuff was gone....while reading the dear John letter....there was a knock at the door....and yes you are right I was served D papers and an Order of protection for violence....... Here's the thing....I never saw it coming and I have never been violent in my life. Everyone is floored...including her own family.....I have not talked to her in 5weeks due to the protection and my lawyers advice....the pain is so great I have to remind myself to breath.... I have seached the net and have not come across this situation....I can't be the only one. She never told her best friend or only sister......her mother which I talked to today for the first time in since the bomb was clueless other than she knew she moved out. She has completely left all our friends.....no one has heard from her and she has not return V-mail.....
What do I do? I got a lawyer three weeks ago....he said ....dude it's over. I can't except this after 9 years of M......there is more I am just tired of typing...
