SC, going dark was what it took for me to focus on me. It reduced the chaos to almost nothing and allowed me to forget about it. Well going dark and telling STBXW not to contact me unless she could do so with at least the pleasantness used for a perfect stranger. It was difficult, but I perceive your resolve.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
