I have backed off the flirting and courting that I have been doing and was working. This is something I need to get back into
Yes you do.
The death of a relationship is complacency. Getting used to doing the bare minimum and taking things for granted.
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To an extent it is pursuing, but if you and your wife are working on things, I think it's okay.
So do I. If you guys are working on being married then pursuing is ok, better if you can read your wife ad know if it is helping or if you need to back off.
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We have been to a MC before but have slacked off recently because every Saturday there seems to be something going on with the kids.
rhut-roo!
Almost like that mythical date night. What-ever happened to those?
Look, you make the time, or you'll never have it. Be selfish in this aspect. You want to be married to an exciting wife and she wants an exciting husband. Not to be married to just a mom or a dad.
Make the time. Hell even possible go so far as to make a date get the babysitter dinner for the kids and when she gets home tell her she has 40 minutes to get ready. Take a little charge.: ) depends on your situation of course.
Your C is right, do not take the rejection personally. Not right away and not for awhile. It took her some time to get to the place she is, it'll take her some time to get to place where she does feel that way about you. Be dashing as all shite. Leading men don't sulk, they laugh it off and remain charming.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
