Can My Marriage Be Saved?

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girl, my situation is almost EXACTLY the same. Except I found out about 6 months ago.

Guess what?

I'm still breathing. You will too.

Like Bond said.

Stay strong.

[a girl]

I have friends to help. I told the OW husband. He was upset, obviously. He informed she wants to separate to pursue my husband.

I also told Hs parents the whole story. They were shocked, and encouraged him to break it off and work it out with me. He won't, though.

I have an appointment with Jody tomorrow. I don't have any hope, though.

[jbnati]

((( )))

Sorry to hear about the discovery!

I have an appointment with Jody tomorrow. I don't have any hope, though.

I think you'll get more help than you realize. It's probably pretty good timing. She should be able to help you get a good game plan going. I've also felt a lot better after I've talked with my DB coach.

[a girl]

He told me again tonight that it's too late, he has feelings for the OW, we're over.

I just feel like if he doesn't contact her for a month or so, and is around to see the 180s I've been doing, it might help. I don't know.

Took S to have dinner with a friend - sent H a text but he didn't get it. He got home and we were gone - he thought I'd gone to a hotel or something.

Anyway. We'll see how tomorrow goes.

[~¤DG¤~]

girl,

I'm sorry to hear about your discovery.
I wish there was something I could say to comfort you.
Talking to a DB coach will help, if anything, to put a plan in place for yourself..

Keep your chin up.

[a girl]

Tough night. Told H some bad stuff about my childhood that I'd never told him. He was sad for me and hugged me for a long time while I cried. He cried too. He's still adamant that it's over, and he has feelings for this other, married woman. But he hates to see me hurt.

This morning he seems sort of sad, but at the same time almost closer to me. However, I'm too scared to get my hopes up.

[jbnati]

Hang in there. I know this extremely tough. I hope you have a good session with Jody today.

[NTX_Dad]

I am sorry to hear this. Hang in there. I know, easier said than done.

Has your husband actually spent any time with the OW yet? Or has all of the interaction been online? It seems weird for your H to throw away a family for a relationship that may not really be real. I think reality will bite him someday and he will regret it.

The main thing to keep in mind is to focus on yourself and your son.

[a girl]

H is working from home half a day today and all day tomorrow, to "reassure" me. I guess reassure me he hasn't contacted OW? I don't see the point, though - it's just a matter of time.

[a girl]

Talked to Jody - really helpful stuff. She gave me a lot of good steps to take for the initial part of the plan.

She also feels that although his words say he's done, his actions say he's not. I'm still scared to hope, but she says it sounds really hopeful. I guess we'll see.