A divorce can leave you completely worn out and drained of desires to go on with your life. It's terribly hard and it's an emotional blow that's difficult to recover from, I know I’ve lived it…..living it.
Look at it as an opportunity for a new beginning. Accept your current situation as is, and build your life to what you want it to be from this very moment onward. Build "a better you."
Obtaining a complete understanding of your situation will get you very far and very fast. Try not to get caught up feeling sorry for yourself, which will keep you from thinking clearly. Now is the time to start living for yourself. But, your STXW rejection does not change who you are and how valuable you are as a person. The rejection was just a choice your ex-spouse made. That's all. You have to always remember that your ex-spouse's choice does not determine your worth. Keep in your mind that you are still a person worthy of a happy and a fulfilling life.
Anger needs an outlet. Venting it out will help you get back to a healthy, emotional state of mind.
