I dreamt the other night of burning our original marriage certificate symbolically. I may yet do that.
That might feel good in the short term, but lets say you guys reconcile? How would you feel then?
As for the going dark, I think it is a good idea for you. And it is hard when you have kids, it is going to take some wteel will on your part to live up to it.
I also suggest that you let him know that you're doing it, something simple. So he doesn't think this is some sort of game or trick.
"I need the space and time for me."
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
