i was terrified to give advice, but i gave support, and later found i had some light advice to offer. now i'm sure people wish i'd go away.
Been fishing lately?
Ken makes a great point.
When you are blindly running around in your own dark forest with no hope, you can still see inside other peoples forests very clearly; watching them run around as blind as you are. It does help you and I always considered it therapeutic to say the least.