Is this the question you said was not answered, b/c I was pretty certain I had.

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I am wondering if a WAW, can be influenced to be a WAW, by someone else's coaching


Yes, I believe another person can be a strong influence on a W who is already having unfulfilled emotional needs which can leave her in a vulnerable place. The friend chats with her, telling her she should do whatever to find happiness.

So, does that answer your question?

The thing is.....it doesn't change things, does it?

I agree with the others. Rememeber what I've told you about a WAW needing to see a man of strength who is able to handle her, among other things.

Every LBS has suffered the diagnosis your doctor gave you! Doctors can give you a name for everything. But, you are wanting to USE YOUR DIAGNOIS to somehow "touch" the heart of your W. It will not work! Get this in your head, she doesn't care! She isn't the girl you M. Stop finding excuses to try to change her and cause her to want you.

You've been given the directions, but you want to do things differently. Please listen to these members who are trying to guide you.

((hugs))

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!