I read an interesting book recently. And I think the point it made was spot on. As humans, we like to think that we evaluate our situations and make rational decisions based on our evaluation. However, what usually happens is that we make a decision, and then come up with rationalizations of why our decision is correct. I get the sense that in some way, you've made the decision that dating should be OK for you and you are searching for rationalizations to prove your point. However, take the lessons learned from others on this board. If your wife were to tell you tomorrow that she wanted to R, would you be interested? If so, you don't need to be in the dating game. That means you have not closed that part of your life. It wouldn't be fair to you and it certainly wouldn't be fair to the person you're dating.
"Love me when I least deserve it, for that is when I need it the most"
M18 Me39,H42 D16 Bomb 1/10 Moved out 3/10 OW 6/10 H wants to R,OW gone 11/10 H moves back 5/11 H wants to wear rings again 9/11
