Grrrrrrr.....

Just received a text from H:
"just confirming that I am picking up S3 on Thursday"

WTF? We hadn't confirmed anything! H wanted S3 to spend 2 nights with him on 1 week, then 1 night the following. We discussed it a little and I said I would think about it. And now he just assumes he can do what suits him. Hell no!

Here's my reply:
" Hi H, we have not decided what the new arrangements would be. You had asked me to think about what I would like to do. At this point I am still thinking about it.

If you would like to discuss/propose new custody arrangements please make arrangements to have a discussion with a mediator present. I will not communicate this topic with you via SMS"

grrrrr......selfish man!


W - 31
H - 33
Married - 7 years
Together - 10 yrs
Kids - S 3yrs old
Separated - 27/03/11
OW - 10/04/11