Hi Punchy,
I see you are still there, haven't checked your sitch for a while. I too am stillhere in this together but lonely life. When your spouse is emotionally unavailable it just is so hard!

But I am learning to be happy from other things, learning not to concentrate too much on my H.

I do wish that our sitches would start moving somewhere, somhow.

Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18
Bomb: 6/26/10
EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ???
11/5/11 Retrouvaille
Finally piecing....
Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go