Not a problem. I've been in the exact same situation as you. In effect our spouses MLC's did trigger our own, but the difference between the two is that you did the research, you did the correct soul searching unlike your W, so you were able to recognize things for the way they were.

I think your W and the others in MLC is a shock to the system. Sometimes that shock is seeing their spouse with another person, sometimes it's when they've lost everything. Unfortunately that's the way it seems to be.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER