Recent 180's in addition to the one above

- Stopped asking how late he will be working, just plan for my night with the kids and when he gets here no questions asked

- Stopped initiating texts and or calls, if he reaches out fine

- Started to attend a new church alone

- Joined a class that begins this Wednesday

- going to the gym 4 times per week with a friend

Re-reading DR tonight again to get some boundaries and clarity


Me 39
H 43
T 20 y
M 17 y
S 17
S 14