Is filing for D a 180?

[luvmyhubby]

Kaffe,
What I meant about him getting curious is that when he doesnt show up on time. First I dont text him or call anymore in the morning to either make sure he is awake or to make sure he is on his way. If he doesnt show up by a certain time I yank the kids out of bed and dress them in a hurry, get them in the car and to daycare by 6:00. Usually if he is late and hasnt texted me already then i wont get a text until after I have dropped them off. I simply reply to his text that our children have been taken care of but instead i use their names.

Now regarding the finances I was pushing for him to add me to his business account at first then this didnt happen. I let things drop because he is talking to me about the $ but he is late late on bills.
He has checks that he gives me from a seperate venture and all he has to do is to pick them up. I need to pay bills with those checks and he was supposed to get them friday before last. Then he said oh he would get them Tuesday but i said nothing more. Then he didnt get them on Friday AGAIN. I reminded him this morning to get them..

How do I get what I need without backsliding? Im on the verge of getting upset very upset and having an outburst.. If he doesnt give me the $ I cant pay daycare etc..

Im trying so hard to give him control of the things I can and he keeps being vengeful. Most everything I can ignore but this..

How do I properly relay what I need about $ ? BTW he has also agreed to give me this money along with the house note. This was his arrangement not mine..

BTW.. the house to him he sees is a burden also.. There is so much he stopped doing and he said that it makes him sick to his stomach when he has to come to the house. I think that other things contribute to this as well like my mom. However she no longer lives there..